For those of you unaware of the horrors perpetrated on society by comedians Kathy Griffin and Bill Maher recently, a quick review: Griffin posted a picture of herself with what appeared to be President Trump’s severed head (the awful image can be seen here), and Maher used the “n-word” (a racial slur which rhymes with “trigger” just in case you’re…um, clueless is the best I can do, sorry) on live TV. Immediately there was media uproar about how these two should be shunned and unemployed. Griffin has been fired from her part-time job on CNN, and many have been vocal in calling for Maher’s Real Time on HBO to be taken off the air. Anderson Cooper denounced Griffin, and Chance the Rapper tweeted that Maher no longer deserved to be heard. In short, many have come out strongly not only against the sins these two committed, but also in favor of banishing them forever.
But not me. I’ve been a fan of Maher’s for his entire fifteen-year run on Real Time and have seen many of his stand-up routines. And based on his history of being progressive in his views (except maybe on Islam), I have no doubt that this slip of the tongue doesn’t represent anything other than a brain fart. I know some might question my right to weigh in on the depth of his mistake, since I am not black, but I do have the right to continue to enjoy his work. Griffin and I do not have as rich a history, but I have laughed at her jokes the few times I have seen her on TV. Don’t let my lack of Griffin exposure fool you, though; she has had a long, very successful career, with movies, television shows, comedy tours, albums, and even a couple of books to her credit (including Emmy and Grammy awards). Griffin’s attempt at political humor with Trump backfired severely, but to me, that doesn’t outweigh her long and steadfast support of LBGT rights over the years. And yeah, I know it doesn’t help my case that both of these people are strident, loud atheists. (Maher made an anti-religion movie in 2008, Religulous (a combination of “religious” and “ridiculous” in case you weren’t immediately offended), and Griffin got in trouble before for her speech upon winning an Emmy in 2007: “Now, look, a lot of people come up here and they thank Jesus for this award. I want you to know that no one had less to do with this award than Jesus. He didn’t help me a bit. If it was up to him, Cesar Millan would be up here with that damn dog. So all I can say is suck it Jesus; this award is my God now.”
So conservatives have plenty of reasons to despise this pair: They are the epitome of the anti-Hollywood crowd’s stereotype of the media liberal who flouts traditional Christian values and embraces such supposedly corrupting influences as atheism, gay pride, and transgender bathrooms. If it were up to these two, no baker could refuse to provide a wedding cake for two men who wanted to get married and “In God We Trust” would be removed from our currency. If right-wing conservatives had a “Most-Wanted” list of those they wanted silenced, these two would probably make the top ten, although certainly behind Michael Moore and Susan Sarandon. (Of course, such lists do exist, and the one I found had neither Kathy nor Bill on it, alas. Moore and Sarandon were #2 and #7 respectively.) But Griffin and Maher both apologized admitted they were totally in the wrong for what they did, and promised to do better in the future. Griffin’s press conference came across as self-serving (as well as painfully awkward), and Maher did bristle a time or two when three black guests (on the next Real Time which aired after the n-bomb disaster) chastised him for the severity of his mistake. Neither, however, tried to mitigate the error of what they’d done and both seemed to regret their poor choices.
That, coupled with their history of using some of the exposure their entertainment jobs provide them to do good helps me to stay with them. Yes, they now have more baggage beyond times when I found Griffin mean or Maher condescending, but overall, I think it’s okay to continue to consume their work product. I’m not going to call for their unemployment or boycott their performances. I do understand that some people will choose to do so, but I’d prefer to hate the sin and love the sinner in this case, since I often need similar understanding myself.
My acceptance of Griffin and Maher, despite their mistakes, does help me to understand some of the loyalty Trump voters have exhibited over the past tumultuous two years. He’s your boy, and you’re not going to dump him just because he says a few offensive, sexist, racist, ignorant, false things. That’s really fine, I guess, as long as you don’t attack my morals, patriotism, or whatever other non-related characteristic you can come up with for not being willing to accept those things. I could argue that he commits more such faux pas in a week than Bill or Kathy have in their careers, but let’s ignore sheer numbers of outrageous, inappropriate remarks/actions for the moment. We’ll also disregard the different standards to which leaders of our country should be held as compared to our entertainers—Trump clearly sees himself much more the latter than the former, which is another huge problem for many of us. But we won’t go there just now.
Instead, let’s go back to one of the main reasons I’m forgiving (if that’s the correct term for not hating on and petitioning for public execution of) Griffin and Maher: their good works. They have consistently advocated for positive things for others when they didn’t have to; and they did so when taking stands they didn’t have to (they’re mere comedians, after all) could and did cost them fans/money. How does Trump fare in that comparison?
Horribly, by my estimation, both before and since he’s become President. Clearly, charity and good works had little to do with his life before politics; if there was a buck to be made—be it steaks, wine, hotels, office buildings, casinos, golf courses, or universities—he was more than happy to slap his name on the product, shill for it shamelessly, and then duck responsibility for any debts or blame when those products tanked (or in the case of his university, hurt people). Even the limited charity work he did seemed shrouded in questionable fund usage or significant delays on promised donations. “Giving back” would not be one of the characteristics anyone would have used to describe Trump the businessman.
As President, it’s been even worse in the short time he’s been in office. He’s pulled back on all environmental protections or programs to improve or maintain our environment. Poor people are always the first to suffer from environmental degradation, as those in Flint, Michigan, would be the first to tell you. Trump’s health care proposal would deprive millions of poor people of their insurance; struggling seniors would be especially targeted under the current plan. The travel ban? It’s hard to imagine how the average person would benefit from that which is a direct challenge to many of the foundations of our Constitution. Our police, federal agents, and homeland security agency have done an excellent job of protecting U.S. citizens; that some crazed individuals believe they are committing heroic acts by blowing up innocent people along with themselves has changed how our protectors have to function, and we’re all still wrestling with the best way to protect freedom at the same time we’re providing protection. Plus, the ban will never make it through the courts intact. Trump’s tax code revision (the scant outline of it he has provided thus far, anyway) directs the bulk of its benefits to the rich, hardly the key demographic which won the election for him, nor those who are hurting in today’s economy. And let’s not even delve into the Russian scandals, which might include collusion and obstruction of justice. Outside of saying how wonderfully he’s doing and forcing his cabinet members to praise him effusively, I can’t point to anything that Donald has done at all besides golf, much less acts which would benefit others. Insult, belittle, ridicule, attack, deceive, manipulate, and betray—absolutely. But help, advance, support, or sacrifice for? Not that I’ve ever seen for as long as he’s been in the public eye.
So I will continue to accept Kathy Griffin and Bill Maher into my world, albeit with a heightened awareness that they are fallible humans like all of us who have to accept their own mistakes and eat crow on occasion. Meanwhile, I’ll keep waiting for the President to concede that it was wrong to mock a reporter’s disability, attack the family of a slain American soldier, brag about sexual assault, or bash the London mayor after a terrorist attack. (And we all know this list of Trump outrages barely scratches the surface of the total number for the last year!) And we won’t even get into a further examination of his “Make America Great Again” agenda based on discrimination and fear. You might not agree with me on whether or not Bill and Kathy deserve any slack (which I can completely understand), but I would be fascinated to hear how Trump supporters rationalize his mountain of sins as he continues to spout the most inane covfefe while doing nothing to benefit anyone but himself.